Benefits of Having a Small, Intimate Wedding

Hey lovebirds! If you've ever found yourself daydreaming about a wedding that feels more like a cozy family dinner than a blockbuster event, you're not alone. Small, intimate weddings are stealing the spotlight, and for good reason! Put aside the stress of worrying about seating chart problems – let's dive into the heartwarming perks of keeping it small and personal on your big day.

Real Talk with Real People:

Say goodbye to the wedding whirlwind where you barely get to chat with anyone. With a smaller guest list, you can actually spend quality time with each guest, sharing laughs, tears, and maybe even a dance or two. It's like a reunion where everyone is genuinely thrilled to be there, creating moments that make your heart do a happy dance. After my own small, intimate wedding, our families said to us: “it was so special to spend every part of your wedding day with you guys.” This hit me hard because it was a small comment but it was a huge statement. At a larger wedding, we would’ve been separated from the people closest to us for most of the day.

No More Wedding Planning Stress:

Planning a wedding can be overwhelming. But a small, intimate wedding is more like a pleasant stroll in the park. Less stress, fewer logistics, and more time to focus on what truly matters – your love story. From picking the perfect spot to crafting a menu that screams 'you,' every decision becomes a breeze. During our wedding planning, we didn’t feel pressured to spend time and money planning out things that we didn’t really want but felt like we should have them to entertain a larger guest count. We also knew that because our guests were made up of people who have seen us at our best and worst and love us unconditionally that we didn’t have to think twice if something was “missing” or being judged. 

Feels Like Home:

Picture this: a wedding where everyone knows each other, and there's an air of familiarity and warmth. That's the magic of an intimate celebration. Your ceremony becomes a heartfelt exchange, surrounded by the people who matter most. It's like a big group hug filled with love, support, and maybe a few happy tears. Don’t think a small celebration means it won’t be fun either, with the right playlist you can be confident that even a small dance floor will be alive and well…and might even incite a singalong to a popular classic…perhaps Bohemian Rhapsody…definitely speaking from experience.

Budget Bliss:

Sure, smaller weddings can be budget-friendly, but the real magic is in spending where it counts. Imagine a gourmet feast, a killer photographer, or a dreamy venue – all within your reach. It's quality over quantity, making your celebration uniquely yours without breaking the bank. Splurge on the things you’ve always dreamed of and save on the extras you don’t need and obviously on your guest count. 

Get Creative, Go Wild:

With a more intimate crowd, you have the freedom to get creative without raising any eyebrows. Think quirky venues, DIY masterpieces, or even a destination wedding and long celebration weekend. The possibilities are endless when you're not trying to fit a small village into your guest list. 

Traditions That Tug at the Heartstrings:

Who says traditions are just for the big weddings? Keep any traditions that mean something to you — your first dance, toasts, parent dances, cake cutting. You can make your own rules. In a smaller setting, you can bring out the sentimental stuff – family heirlooms, cultural rituals, or a ceremony script that makes your heart skip a beat. It's like adding a sprinkle of magic to an already enchanting day. For example, private vows have been a sentimental part of larger weddings giving couples an opportunity to read their personal vows in a quiet moment separate from their ceremony. A smaller wedding may allow you to feel comfortable sharing your own written vows for your spouse in front of those closest to you — making for an extra intimate ceremony.

So there you have it – the down-to-earth beauty of small, intimate weddings. It's not about the size; it's about the heart. Embrace the joy of sharing your special day with those who mean the most, and watch as your wedding becomes a love-filled adventure that you'll cherish forever. After all, good things really do come in small packages! If you’re ready to start planning your intimate wedding day, I’m happy to be a resource. Get in touch!